Temitope Akinfolarin
Sister-in-law turned Sister
Bro Akinwale!
I have gone from disbelief to denial, anger, and grief, bargaining for just one more chance to have you back.
The sheer volume of broken family and friends visiting us is proof of the life you lived, truly loving and touching everyone who crossed your path.
From the moment we met while I was dating Anu, you made me feel like I truly belonged in the family. If I had to sum you up in three words, they would be: stylish, gentle, and a devoted family man. You possessed a quiet brilliance, a man of few words but profound intellect who hated confrontation, yet welcomed healthy discussion. Your presence was deeply felt before you were even seen.
You lived for the people you loved, spearheading family outings and celebrating every milestone with us, from birthdays and holidays to our wedding, pregnancy announcement, and baby dedication.
Though you are gone, Baby J will grow up knowing what an amazing uncle you are, and Teni is blessed to have grown up knowing you.
You possessed a rare grace, never treating me as a subordinate but always as an equal. In your eyes, the "in-law" tag didn’t exist; I was simply your sister, and your invaluable support through the stages of my life offered the steady, intelligent advice only a true brother could give.
I will forever cherish our calls and messages, especially playfully hijacking the phone from Mummy and Anu the second I heard your voice. I loved the beautiful, close-knit bond you shared with them and Sis B.
I will deeply miss the familiarity of your voice, especially your signature, "Okay, okay, okay," the moment you caught the gist of a discussion. I will miss your vulnerability, your openness, and "hounding" you to let me take your photos at family gatherings.
I am so glad my phone is filled with memories of you, and our last video together lives rent-free in my head. And, of course, I will miss teasing about how a man of your stature, so tall and powerfully built, loved sleek, low-slung sports cars. But that was just you, impeccable in taste, unique in style, and unforgettable in presence.
Right now, your absence has left a devastating void. Mummy is heartbroken and falling apart, Sis Mobola cannot find words to convey the impact of losing you, and Anu is trying to be strong but is breaking apart beneath the surface.
I wish you could be our modern-day Lazarus.
Thank you for being a true brother to me and for loving me just as you loved Anu, your brother.
I love you, Bro Akinwale. Rest well, until we meet again, Egbon mi.
13 July 2026
Prince Adedapo Agunbiade
Brother in Law
Its11 still with disbelief that im writing this tribute message for you,really cant believe you are gone,but Akin i will not forget you, a true gentleman to tbe core Hod knows best ,sleep well brother,you will continue yo leave in our hearts lovingly,test in peace brother.
13 July 2026
Afolabi Phillips kuti
brother- in-law ( wife's first cousin)
I wish to have given you the flowers while you were here with us.
He was the closest relative to me from my in-laws.
A man of very few words. But very blunt with the truth. Very dependable human being. Was very focused on where he was going. His drive inspired me when he joined us in UK in the 90s.
I never told you this. I was so proud of you. Akinwale just never saw the issues. How do we move over and forward. Akin did break the ceilings. I cannot write my journey in the UK without putting you in perspective.
I lost my dad, sister and niece. Your loss has been a very big one for me.
But I know your legacy lives on. Its a wake up call for me that this journey called life is so transient.
Continue to rest on Akinwale, till we meet and depart no more.
Good night.
12 July 2026
Akin,
I am still in disbelief that you are gone. Your sudden departure has left a void that words cannot fill.
From the moment I met you, I admired your brilliant mind, your calm and thoughtful approach to life, and the quiet confidence with which you carried yourself. You were truly one of a kind. I also cannot forget that enviable full head of hair—it was so uniquely you and always brought a smile to my face.
There was no one quite like you, Akin. Your absence will be deeply felt, and your memory will forever remain in our hearts.
My prayers are with your family and everyone who loved you. May the Lord surround them with His comfort and give them strength in the days ahead.
Rest in perfect peace, my dear friend, until we meet again.
12 July 2026
Lummy
Friend of the family
Uncle Akin,
The news of your passing came as a great shock and losing you has left a deep ache in our hearts. Even in the few times I had the privilege of being around you, your love, kindness, warmth, and gentle presence left a lasting impression on me. Your wisdom touched everyone who knew you.
We will cherish every memory and every moment shared with you. Although we can no longer see you, your love will remain with us always.
Rest peacefully, Uncle Akin. You will be deeply missed, forever remembered and always loved.
Rest in peace..
12 July 2026
sekinat
Friend of the family
Although I never had the privilege of meeting Akin, I have been deeply saddened by the news of his passing. My heartfelt condolences go to his family and everyone whose lives he touched. May God grant him eternal rest and give all who mourn him the strength, peace, and comfort to carry on. Rest in peace.
12 July 2026
To describe your passing as unexpected and a shock is an understatement.
Rest in perfect peace my friend.
12 July 2026
ADIEU bro! Rest in peace Akinwale. This really hits deep. It is well 🙏
12 July 2026
Akinwale, my dearest Aburo,
How do you say goodbye to someone whose absence leaves your world feeling quieter, smaller, and infinitely less beautiful?
Words seem so hopelessly inadequate. They cannot carry the weight of my grief, nor can they capture the depth of my love for you. To say I loved and admired you would barely scratch the surface. I adored you. I treasured every moment we spent together, and I have never been more proud of anyone than I was of the remarkable man you grew to become.
Whenever I knew you were coming to visit, my heart would fill with excitement. I knew that before the day was over, we would be deep in conversation—exploring philosophy, science, the wonders of nature, and the endless questions that make life so fascinating. We challenged each other's ideas, finished each other's thoughts, and laughed until we were like little boys again. Those conversations were never ordinary; they were gifts. And you, my dear Aburo, were one of the greatest gifts life ever gave me.
Your kindness was effortless. Your generosity of spirit was boundless. You possessed a quiet wisdom and a warmth that drew people to you. You were the kind of person who left every room brighter simply by being in it. In a world where genuine souls are so rare, you were a precious jewel—a truly extraordinary human being.
Today, my heart is broken in ways I never imagined possible. It is difficult to comprehend that I will never again hear your voice, see your smile, or eagerly await another visit filled with laughter, learning, and love. There is an emptiness where you once stood that no one else can ever fill.
But grief is the price we pay for loving someone so deeply. And if my heart must ache because you were part of my life, then it is an ache I will bear with gratitude. For what a privilege it was to have shared this life with you. What a privilege it was to call you my Aburo.
I know you would not want me to remember you only through tears. You would want me to smile at the memories we created, to laugh at our endless conversations, and to continue asking questions about this extraordinary universe that fascinated us both. Every time I marvel at the beauty of nature, every time I lose myself in philosophy or science, I will find a piece of you there. In that way, you will never truly be gone.
Though death has taken you from my sight, it can never take you from my heart. Love does not end where life ends. It remains. It echoes. It endures.
12 July 2026
Akin,
Although we only knew each other for a brief time, I will always be grateful that our paths crossed. In that short time, you left a lasting impression through your warmth, kindness, and genuine spirit. Some people have a way of touching our lives in ways that are not measured by the length of time we know them but by the memories they leave behind.
Though your journey has come to an end, your memory will continue to live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and loved ones during this difficult time.
Rest in perfect peace, my friend. Thank you for the memories, however brief. You will always be remembered with fondness, and respect.
12 July 2026
Continued:
So, my dear Aburo, thank you.
Thank you for your love. Thank you for your laughter. Thank you for your wisdom. Thank you for the countless memories that I will cherish for the rest of my days.
You will always be loved. You will always be missed. And as long as my heart continues to beat, your light will continue to shine within it.
Rest peacefully, my beloved Aburo.
I love you. I always have, and I always will.
From Dapo- your Bros and Cuz as you would often call me. ❤️❤️❤️
12 July 2026
Tribute to My Beloved Akinwale
Dearest Akin,
Your sudden passing on Sunday, 5 July, has left an ache in my heart that words can scarcely express. You were only 57, and would have celebrated your 58th birthday on 20 July 2026. It is difficult to accept that you are gone so soon.
I first met you when I was 16, on my very first day at Great Ife. I still remember how offended I was when you came to ask me out, because you saw a “green round the ears” Jambito! 😅. It was a funny moment then, and it remains a fond memory now. We became good friends, and eventually began dating when I turned 20.
We schooled together, worked together, and four years later, we got married. Together, we strived to build a good life and were blessed with two wonderful children, Adeola and Fiyin. They brought us immense joy, and I am deeply grateful for the family and memories we shared.
You were a true gentleman and a great father. I will always cherish the beautiful memories we created together, especially the happier times that remain precious in my heart. Though life may have taken us in subtly different directions towards the end, but it gladdens me that our relationship remained amicable until the very end, and our strong bond of family endured.
Your death is a crushing blow to my soul. Yet, I hold firmly to my faith in God, trusting that He only called you home because it was your time to go.
Your children and I will love you, honour you, and cherish your memory, now and always, Akinwale.
Peace is yours now.
Sleep well, my dear.
Much love,
HRM EYEMOOBA ADERONKE AGUNBIADE-AKIN
12 July 2026
Caroline Adesewa Adesanya
Inlaw
<p style="text-align: center;">Oh Akin !!! On Akin…..Words cannot express the grief and sorrow we feel at your passing, Akin. You will be deeply missed. It’s so hard to believe that you are no longer with us. I will always remember your warm smile, your joking nature, and your quiet seriousness. I remember when we first met in the early ’90s as our new in-law, and how effortlessly you became part of the family, especially with my parents. You were also so welcoming to my husband, and over the years the two of you built a lovely rapport. Your legacy will live on through your wonderful children. I pray that they, Ronke and the entire family, will find strength, comfort, and peace in the cherished memories you leave behind. Rest in peace, Akin.</p>
Love Caroline Adesewa & Rotimi Adesanya
12 July 2026
Tony and Yinka George
Friend
<p style="text-align: center;">A Tribute to My Dear Friend, Akinwale Akinfolarin</p>
Akinwale Akinfolarin (Akinzo),
Knowing you for more than 40 years and sharing so many memorable moments together has been a true blessing. The friendship we shared is a gift that I will forever cherish and hold dear in my heart.
I remember our younger days when we would always move around in convoy whenever we go out. Those were wonderful times filled with laughter, friendship, and unforgettable memories. Akinzo, you had a special love for coupé cars, and your passion for them was always evident.
One memory that stands out vividly is when you came all the way from Ife to visit me in Ado-Ekiti while I was at university. I was genuinely touched by the effort you made to check on me. That thoughtful gesture spoke volumes about the kind of person you were—caring, loyal, and always willing to go the extra mile for your friends.
Akinzo, you were someone who genuinely cared about the welfare and well-being of others. On many occasions, you would tell me about your plans to visit a friend who was unwell or someone facing challenges in life. You always made time for people, offering support, encouragement, and friendship whenever it was needed. Your kindness and compassion reflected the words of Scripture: "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfil the law of Christ." — Galatians 6:2
Flow, I will forever be thankful for the friendship, love, and kindness you showed to my family over the years. Your warmth made a lasting impression on all of us. You had a special smile that still lingers in my mind whenever I think of you—a smile that reflected the goodness in your heart.
The last time we spoke, you told me that you were taking some time off work to rest. Today, I find comfort in believing that you are resting in the Lord until that glorious day when we shall meet again, never to part anymore.
"Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord... they will rest from their labour, for their deeds will follow them." — Revelation 14:13
As we mourn your passing, we also pray that God will comfort your beloved family and grant them the strength and fortitude to bear this great loss. May they find peace in God's unfailing promises and in the wonderful legacy you have left behind.
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18
Tony and Yinka George
12 July 2026
Dear bro! This is still so unreal. I have no words! But, I take solace that that you have gone to rest.
Rest easy bro! 💙💔❤️
12 July 2026
AKINTUNDE BABATUNDE (OYO)
Brother
We love you but Jesus love you most may your soul rest in peace
May God Almighty uphold the family you left and comfort them
I felt sad typing this but God is unqestionable
Rest well in the blossom of God
12 July 2026
Good night, Dear Akinwale.
Never knew the parting would be so soon.
It is a BIG wound in our hearts.
A great pain to see you go.
Rest well, Beloved.
We miss you sorely !
Your cousin
Atinshola.
12 July 2026
May your precious soul rest in perfect peace Akin. It is. Well🙏🏾
12 July 2026
Francis Akanni
Old Friend
I met Flo in Ife in 1986 where we studied law together. We continued our journey of life from 1997 when I returned to England and have always had our lives intertwined in one way of another.
Flo was a good friend. We had frequent debates and he was intellectually stimulating and considerate. He was also the perfect gentleman.
On the 7th of July 2005 when London was bombed Flo was working in the HSBC tower with my heavily pregnant wife. He made sure she got home. He walked with her, hailed cabs for her, made sure she had a seat on the bus and brought my wife safely home to me. I will always remember him as the gentleman who took care of my wife when I could not get to her. This event summed up Flo.
I will celebrate his life, a good friend and a loving family man.
May his soul rest in peace.
12 July 2026
Brother William Akinwale Akinfolarin (Akin)
Goodnight, Brother Akin.
It is still difficult to believe that you are gone. You were a gentle soul whose calm nature spoke louder than words. You never sought arguments or quarrels, and you always chose peace over conflict.
You had a unique way of encouraging people to look beyond today and prepare for tomorrow. Your advice was always thoughtful, practical, and sincere. You constantly encouraged others to be diligent, to work hard, and to approach life with wisdom and purpose. Many lives have been quietly shaped by your words of encouragement.
Your kindness, humility, and gentle spirit will remain in our hearts. Though your journey on earth has ended, the impact of the life you lived will continue to speak for you.
May the Lord grant you eternal rest, and may He comfort and strengthen everyone whose life you touched.
Goodnight, Brother Akin. Sleep peacefully in the bosom of the Lord until we meet again.
“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” — Matthew 5:8
Forever remembered. Forever missed. 🤍
12 July 2026
Dear Dad,
It still doesn’t feel real that you’re gone. There are so many moments we’ve shared that I’ll carry with me for the rest of my life.
I’ll always remember those Sunday mornings when you took me to football, and the afternoons we’d spend at the park. You never let me get away with only using my right foot—you were always reminding me how important it was to practice with my left foot as well. At the time, it just seemed like football advice, but looking back, it reflected the way you approached life: always encouraging me to become more capable, more prepared, and the best version of myself.
As I began stepping into adulthood, your guidance became even more valuable. Whether it was personal advice or professional advice, you were always there to listen, to encourage me, and to point me in the right direction. So much of the person I am today is because of the lessons you taught me and the example you set. Although there were times when I didn’t fully understand your advice, as the years went by, your words always proved to be true. Time and again, I’d find myself facing situations where I realised exactly what you meant. I’m certain that will continue even now. Though you’ve passed, I know your wisdom will keep guiding me through life, just as it always has.
I’ll also forever treasure our tennis matches, although I can admit you were the better player - you wouldn’t always get the best of me because I knew you couldn’t deal with the drop shots🤣. Those moments together meant more to me than I probably ever told you. They weren’t just games—they were time spent with my dad, creating memories that I’ll hold onto forever.
Thank you for everything you did for me, for believing in me, and for always wanting the best for me. I promise I’ll keep striving to make you proud. Although you’re no longer here with me physically, I know you’ll always be watching over me in spirit, and I’ll carry your love, your lessons, and your memory with me every single day.
I love you, Dad. Always.
Your Son,
Fiyin
12 July 2026
Akin!!! Your passing came as a devastating shock. Words failed me! It’s hard to accept that you are gone. Your absence leaves a void that words cannot fill.
My family and I take solace in knowing that you are resting peacefully in the bosom of your creator. We thank Almighty God for the beautiful memories we shared with you. May Almighty God in His infinite mercy grant your gentle soul eternal rest and grant your loved ones the strength and comfort to bear this great loss
Sleep! Sleep well Akin
You will always be remembered and deeply missed
Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!!
Much Love always
Yele Oni 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
12 July 2026
Good night dearest cousin, till we meet to part no more at the feet of our Lord Jesus where there will be no more pain and sorrow.
Rest well.
12 July 2026
Tribute to Big Brother Akinwale
The news of your passing came as a complete shock. It is still difficult to accept that you are gone.
I usually looked forward to your visit to Nigeria. Those moments were more than family gatherings to me. They were opportunities to sit with you, exchange ideas, debate the latest developments in technology, explore business opportunities, and learn from your unique perspective. You had a way of challenging my thinking while encouraging me to aim higher.
Beyond those conversations, I will deeply miss your brotherly counsel. Your advice was always thoughtful, sincere, and given with genuine care. Many of the lessons you shared will remain with me for years to come, and I will carry them as part of your legacy in my life.
Egin Akinwale, your time with us was far too short, but the impact you made will not be forgotten. Thank you for the wisdom you shared, the encouragement you gave so freely, and the memories we were privileged to create together.
May God grant you eternal rest and surround your loved ones with His peace during this painful time.
I commit your family into God's loving hands. In this season of deep sorrow, I pray for God's strength when they feel weak, their comfort when the pain feels overwhelming, and their peace when questions remain unanswered.
Rest in perfect peace, and may your memory forever remain a blessing.
Amen.
12 July 2026
Motunrayo Akintomide
1st Cousins
I remember vividly your warmth and your smile. I treasure the memory of your that I have. You were a great big bro. I still remember all those years from Ayo Davis close to when you travelled to Uk. Rest well bro Akinwale. May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen
12 July 2026